https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=xGPeNN9S0Fg
I find this video mesmerizing.
It's not because its One Direction and they're all that any girl can talk about... but because what they say in this music video is the foundation to many great relationships.
How many of you out there are with some one that doesn't appreciate you? or critiques you? or puts you down?
If you are please get out of the relationship full speed running no matter how hard it might be because at the end of the day you will find someone who will accept you and treat you the way you should be treated no matter what faults you have. Your faults make you special. You should embrace them. And so should anyone else who wants to befriend you or love you. Never settle for less than you absolutely deserve.
This song is the handbook for how a woman should be loved and how a woman would like to be loved.
Now I'm not going to speak for every woman because we are all different but I am convinced that at least one verse of this song can touch every single woman on this planet.
My relationship is with my best friend. He is everything I am not. Where there are flaws in me there are strengths in him. And where the is strength in me there are flaws in him. To me that's the best kind of relationship. One where no matter how crazy, or stupid, or weird, or just out right abnormal you act like your partner still loves you and still accepts you.
Do not be scared of embarrassment. Accepting embarrassment and striving for embarrassment is the best thing you could do for your self. Because it shows that you are not afraid. Don't be afraid.
To the men: accept your women or the women around you. Don't make her feel less than she really is or ignore the fact that they are not perfect. Reality check: WE ARE HUMAN! We do dumb things and we make fools of ourselves but hey who doesn't!
My advice: love everything about yourself and the ones you love because one day they'll be all you have left. Resentment is not a fathomable.
Sincerely,
Nina <3
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